posted by Mary Lello, Wednesday, May 5, 2010, 8:00 AM
It's amazing how slow the days feel in here, and yet how quickly things are progressing.
We are increasing Jim's medications to keep him comfortable and pain free. As these meds go up he will drift into sleep and from there be lifted, free, from this shell eventually.
We are all starting to pull in a little closer now. For today, depending on how Jim is, you may be allowed to come into the room and just sit within this space but he feels the energetic fields so intensely that it no longer seems right for so many to sit with him, at his side.
I know every single one of you understands if you are not allowed into the room now. But the courtyard is beautiful and I may come out and sit with you, and bask in your love for Jim.
Another wonderful thing to remember - hearing is the last thing to go. IF there is anything you would like to say to Jim write it down and I will read it to him for you. I have done this for a couple people already. He does hear it. I'm honored to pass your message on to him at this time.
Please know, there is no "should" in any of this. Ever.
PS - if you do wish to write something just know that hard copy would be best - not email as I have no copier here. And it will be wonderful for me to have these writings when Jim is gone as well. You can mail it to our house: 7 Pitt St., Falmouth, Me o4105 if this is easiest.